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]]> Comment on About Me by KD http://narcissisticex.com/about/comment-page-1/#comment-4216 KD Mon, 12 Mar 2012 23:39:11 +0000 http://narcissisticex.com/?page_id=2#comment-4216 I am divorced to a narc too. My divorce has been final for about 4 years now, but once in a while he gets a third party to contact me for some little thing. Anything. The last time he had his friend call me and it was right before he was getting married. His friend wanted to hook me up with his coworker. Ummm wtf? Really?? So then I delicned that "offer." He then had his friend call me two days later saying he found a picture album in a box my ex left behind at his house and he wanted to meet in private to give it to me. Yes, seriously in private. I agreed to meet this friend at a restaurant and brought my friend but said I was coming alone. We saw him in the parking lot and was talking on the phone with someone, we only assumed was my ex. WHY he still wanted to contact me through his friend is beyond me. But I showed them I’m not playing games. He is not smarter than me, although he likes to think he is. LOL! So many thing he did during our marriage too. I too was abandoned in a public place with out my purse, ID, money, etc. and that was on our HONEYMOON! Why I didn’t go home after getting back to my hotel room after begging the front desk, telling them my name and ID number by heart and practically crying? He said I couldn’t get a new plane ticket home, then he’d max out my credit cards and empty the accounts and buy property there. I was scared. I believed him. Once I finally had enough, I found out he was cheating on me. And when I confronted him about it, he blamed me, said I had trust issues and said that girl hated me as did all his coworkers. I told him I wanted a divorce the next day and he quickly changed! He became this loving, sorrowful crying, innocent man. LOL! I went home to my parents and got a lawyer. A SHARK of a lawyer! She made him cry! Haha! At first he was so nice, my lawyer said he was being really cooperative and sweet and good. I said wait, it’ll change! He did, he couldn’t keep the act up and he was found out. But yeah he still hasn’t really gone out of my life. I’m still scared of what he might do next. He once tried to get a life insurance policy on me and that still bothers me. He may have forged my signature and that’s why he still tried to get me in private with a friend or his friend’s coworker. Not going to happen! I’m trying to keep my wits about me! I hope things work out for you. Evil never wins! He hasn’t broken me and your narc will never break you. Don’t let him. There is a God-given, divine soul inside you and he will never own it. He may try, but you have the basic fundamental God-given right to defend yourself. Know this. You have more power than this weak little piss ant narc. ((((hugs)))) I am divorced to a narc too. My divorce has been final for about 4 years now, but once in a while he gets a third party to contact me for some little thing. Anything. The last time he had his friend call me and it was right before he was getting married. His friend wanted to hook me up with his coworker. Ummm wtf? Really?? So then I delicned that “offer.” He then had his friend call me two days later saying he found a picture album in a box my ex left behind at his house and he wanted to meet in private to give it to me. Yes, seriously in private. I agreed to meet this friend at a restaurant and brought my friend but said I was coming alone. We saw him in the parking lot and was talking on the phone with someone, we only assumed was my ex.

WHY he still wanted to contact me through his friend is beyond me. But I showed them I’m not playing games. He is not smarter than me, although he likes to think he is. LOL!

So many thing he did during our marriage too. I too was abandoned in a public place with out my purse, ID, money, etc. and that was on our HONEYMOON! Why I didn’t go home after getting back to my hotel room after begging the front desk, telling them my name and ID number by heart and practically crying? He said I couldn’t get a new plane ticket home, then he’d max out my credit cards and empty the accounts and buy property there. I was scared. I believed him.

Once I finally had enough, I found out he was cheating on me. And when I confronted him about it, he blamed me, said I had trust issues and said that girl hated me as did all his coworkers. I told him I wanted a divorce the next day and he quickly changed! He became this loving, sorrowful crying, innocent man. LOL! I went home to my parents and got a lawyer. A SHARK of a lawyer! She made him cry! Haha! At first he was so nice, my lawyer said he was being really cooperative and sweet and good. I said wait, it’ll change! He did, he couldn’t keep the act up and he was found out.

But yeah he still hasn’t really gone out of my life. I’m still scared of what he might do next. He once tried to get a life insurance policy on me and that still bothers me. He may have forged my signature and that’s why he still tried to get me in private with a friend or his friend’s coworker. Not going to happen! I’m trying to keep my wits about me!

I hope things work out for you. Evil never wins! He hasn’t broken me and your narc will never break you. Don’t let him. There is a God-given, divine soul inside you and he will never own it. He may try, but you have the basic fundamental God-given right to defend yourself. Know this. You have more power than this weak little piss ant narc. ((((hugs))))

]]> Comment on This Blog was Hijacked… but I have it back! by admin http://narcissisticex.com/this-blog-was-hijacked-but-i-have-it-back/comment-page-1/#comment-4010 admin Tue, 10 Jan 2012 03:14:47 +0000 http://narcissisticex.com/?p=881#comment-4010 DearJess, I am so glad that you wrote to me, and am thrilled that you've realized that YOU ARE NOT INSANE!Please, please, start a journal, of everything that you are going through. Write it, voice record, or video record, on a daily basis if possible. Keep this journal in a VERY safe place; it could save your life! You should write a book, a blog, or just keep sharing your experiences on my site. You have NO IDEA, how many people you can help, including yourself, by doing so. Just so you know; I stopped writing for a while,because I was too depressed to even get out of bed. I isolated myself because I was too embarrassed to reach out to almost everyone, for help. This asshole had abused,humiliated,and destroyed me. using the legal system, AND, slandering me to everyone in MY OWN TOWN. Here's the good news; the truth will come out. People will realize that the Narc is the liar.The Narc will destroy "itself".Lay low, take care of yourself, and do not respond to the bullshit.I hope that you have a couple of people that you can trust to be by your side, and you need to have a professional therapist that specializes in dealing with Narcissists, Psychopaths, Sociopaths, and Charles Manson. Keep in touch! Much love to you from me. DearJess,
I am so glad that you wrote to me, and am thrilled that you’ve realized that YOU ARE NOT INSANE!Please, please, start a journal, of everything that you are going through. Write it, voice record, or video record, on a daily basis if possible. Keep this journal in a VERY safe place; it could save your life! You should write a book, a blog, or just keep sharing your experiences on my site. You have NO IDEA, how many people you can help, including yourself, by doing so.

Just so you know; I stopped writing for a while,because I was too depressed to even get out of bed. I isolated myself because I was too embarrassed to reach out to almost everyone, for help. This asshole had abused,humiliated,and destroyed me. using the legal system, AND, slandering me to everyone in MY OWN TOWN. Here’s the good news; the truth will come out. People will realize that the Narc is the liar.The Narc will destroy “itself”.Lay low, take care of yourself, and do not respond to the bullshit.I hope that you have a couple of people that you can trust to be by your side, and you need to have a professional therapist that specializes in dealing with Narcissists, Psychopaths, Sociopaths, and Charles Manson. Keep in touch! Much love to you from me.

]]> Comment on This Blog was Hijacked… but I have it back! by Jess78 http://narcissisticex.com/this-blog-was-hijacked-but-i-have-it-back/comment-page-1/#comment-3776 Jess78 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 04:04:57 +0000 http://narcissisticex.com/?p=881#comment-3776 OMG....another one of my bad days going through this divorce process with my own Narc Ex. Then I come across your BLOG. I'm REALLY NOT INSANE! Everything I've read so far is my ex to a T. I've been in therapy for 3 years now because of this jerk and how crazy he made ME feel. Your blog is even more proof that I'm not hallucinating. I've actually been thinking of writing a book about my situation, but thinking about it while still going through it are COMPLETELY exhausting to me at this point. Thank God I found you! OMG….another one of my bad days going through this divorce process with my own Narc Ex. Then I come across your BLOG. I’m REALLY NOT INSANE! Everything I’ve read so far is my ex to a T. I’ve been in therapy for 3 years now because of this jerk and how crazy he made ME feel. Your blog is even more proof that I’m not hallucinating. I’ve actually been thinking of writing a book about my situation, but thinking about it while still going through it are COMPLETELY exhausting to me at this point. Thank God I found you!

]]> Comment on About Me by admin http://narcissisticex.com/about/comment-page-1/#comment-491 admin Sun, 18 Sep 2011 20:12:59 +0000 http://narcissisticex.com/?page_id=2#comment-491 Amazing, sick, sad, and true. I never thought about the witness relo program........ Amazing, sick, sad, and true. I never thought about the witness relo program……..

]]> Comment on About Me by Robbin http://narcissisticex.com/about/comment-page-1/#comment-451 Robbin Sat, 17 Sep 2011 06:10:50 +0000 http://narcissisticex.com/?page_id=2#comment-451 I have been going through a divorce with a Narcissist for the last three and a half years; March 2012 will make it 4 years. She is completely unreasonable about everything. She has found an attorney who she does not pay, but continues to take me back to court over every little thing. Then he tells the judge I should pay for his time and the judge here has no problem awarding those fees. They have taken or forced me to liquidate everything I have to pay for her attorney, the guardian ad litem, and my attorney (that is when I can afford them). She and her attorney have lied to the court, presented false data, and because I wasn’t able to afford an attorney at the time, I was not able to present what needed to be presented to show they were and are wrong. It all takes money. At the last hearing as I sat testifying to the court how her attorney has harassed me, threatened me with jail time, she was sitting there with one of those smiles, the one that was saying I am loving seeing you on the hot seat, then she reached up to her eye with one finger and acted like she was wiping away a tear. All I want is for it to be over. We have been married for 22 years, she has had multiple affairs, manipulated me and everyone else, and I just kept telling myself I need to make it until my children are grown and then I can divorce her. I had no idea she would make my life a living hell after separating from her. It isn't easy, and people have told me I have the patience of JOB. But she has left emtional scars on me that will never go away, she has taken away from me ... my pride, dignity, my children, and because of her attorneys harassment towards me at work, and constantly notifying my employer or requesting this document and that document and then with all the time taken off for these stupid ass, frivilous court hearings over nothing, I have lost my job. The bottom line in my oppinion, if you are divorcing a Narc, get in touch with the witness relocation program, and don't let them know where you are. I have been going through a divorce with a Narcissist for the last three and a half years; March 2012 will make it 4 years. She is completely unreasonable about everything. She has found an attorney who she does not pay, but continues to take me back to court over every little thing. Then he tells the judge I should pay for his time and the judge here has no problem awarding those fees. They have taken or forced me to liquidate everything I have to pay for her attorney, the guardian ad litem, and my attorney (that is when I can afford them). She and her attorney have lied to the court, presented false data, and because I wasn’t able to afford an attorney at the time, I was not able to present what needed to be presented to show they were and are wrong. It all takes money. At the last hearing as I sat testifying to the court how her attorney has harassed me, threatened me with jail time, she was sitting there with one of those smiles, the one that was saying I am loving seeing you on the hot seat, then she reached up to her eye with one finger and acted like she was wiping away a tear. All I want is for it to be over. We have been married for 22 years, she has had multiple affairs, manipulated me and everyone else, and I just kept telling myself I need to make it until my children are grown and then I can divorce her. I had no idea she would make my life a living hell after separating from her. It isn’t easy, and people have told me I have the patience of JOB. But she has left emtional scars on me that will never go away, she has taken away from me … my pride, dignity, my children, and because of her attorneys harassment towards me at work, and constantly notifying my employer or requesting this document and that document and then with all the time taken off for these stupid ass, frivilous court hearings over nothing, I have lost my job. The bottom line in my oppinion, if you are divorcing a Narc, get in touch with the witness relocation program, and don’t let them know where you are.

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