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Jan 112012

So much has happened in the last six months! I’m just going to outline the events, and fill in the complete story in other posts.

The Narc is now trying to destroy the lives of people that were close to him, that have ACTUAL EVIDENCE of his illegal and criminal actions; money laundering, forgery, blackmail, extortion, insurance fraud, grand theft, and more. AGAIN, he is using the Police, the legal system (it doesn’t cost him a dime), and “friends” around him that have past, and present affiliations with both entities. He is such an AMAZING LIAR, and people believe him!

I’m afraid to write too much at this point, and am in fear for my life. However, if something happens to me ( a strange accident, or shooting, resulting in my death), HE, AND HIS “FRIENDS” WILL BE CAUGHT. It’s truly sick, that my death could be the only thing that can stop him, at this point

He continues to use third parties to,stalk, and threaten me. He never does it himself; he uses his underlings, to do his dirty work ;having my residence watched,calling in false police reports, following me, breaking into my house, stealing my mail, going through my garbage, and on and on. Now he’s doing the same thing to his latest target, and that person’s family,and friends. He is leaving
by h.koppdelaney under CC-SA He must feel so proud to be “the godfather of the white trash mafia”.

If you just started reading my blog, you probably think that I’m making this up. PLEASE, PLEASE, go back to my earliest posts, so that you can understand that this is reality, and it’s gone on for OVER FOUR AND A HALF YEARS!!!

Anyway, I’m exhausted, and have to stop writing now. Please send in your comments, and suggestions. Don’t bother telling me to call the police, get a restraining order, and blah, blah, blah. I’ve done it all (read the beginning).It’s easier for me to stay home, in bed.

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The Truth Behind The Narcissist’s Mask; Do Your Homework Before It’s Too Late

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Feb 182011

The Truth Behind The Narcissist’s Mask…

Yes! It is possible, usual, and normal, for a Narcissist to take all of the steps necessary, to assume a believable, powerful persona, of someone that they are not! They are expert, pathological liars, that will say and do anything, to cover up the truth of what they really are. Sometimes they come from damaged family backgrounds. Sometimes, they are spoiled, rotten brats. Sometimes, there is no reason for them to act the way that they do. The “sense of entitlement” of a Narcissist drives them to do whatever they want, to whomever they want, to achieve a sense of superiority, and acceptance, in their conception of reality.

For this reason, here is my most important advice to you! Do a background check on this person before you get too involved, especially when you’re talking about the The Three M’S; MONEY, MOVING IN TOGETHER, & MARRIAGE! If you’re talking about your future, you have the right to know about their past, and present life. Ask for, or obtain his/her SS#, and Drivers’ license # (better yet, a copy of the ID). See if they have aliases, criminal history,ex-wives, current wives, children, and mental problems. Run a credit report on them. Go to the County Records, and pull up everything you can find with their name on it (you can do some of this online). And, even after that , DIG DEEPER! I didn’t find out, until we were separated after seven years of living together, that my ex husband had been involved in 62 lawsuits (YES, SIXTY TWO), that I was not even aware of, BEFORE WE WERE MARRIED!!! He was a professional litigator, without an attorney’s license! Hope this helps you feel a little bit better. I, at least, deserve a free dunce cap.

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Feb 172011

I’m glad that so many of you have found, and followed my blog. You must all give yourselves a HUGE round of applause, and many pats on your backs, for surviving the abuse that you, and your children, did not deserve. Please write in, and tell me more about your experiences with your NARC, and how you made it through the battles. You have no idea how many people that you would be helping. I had no idea how many people have been in my same situation,and been destroyed by their involvement with a Narcissist,until I received a ton of responses to my blog. It makes me wonder how many people were not able to survive the devastation, caused by this relationship, and turned to alcohol, drugs, and suicide.

I ended up homeless during this ordeal, and I’m sure many others have had to go there too. It’s so painful to talk about, that you just CAN NOT talk about it. We can not believe that we will get any help from the police, the Court system, and even our family and friends, because the NARCS are AMAZING PATHOLOGICAL LIARS, and are able to twist every truth, into a lie that is beneficial for them. Those on the outside of your relationship, do not get this, and will not believe you. It’s hard for us to wrap our minds around such a ridiculous reality.

We really need to FIND and CREATE more support groups to help us cope with, and find the better life, THAT WE DESERVE. I know that there are some wonderful groups of counselors out there already, and I would love to be able to help spread the word, of help that may be available to all of us. Thank you, and much love to all of you.